Man kicks brother and his girlfriend out of his house after they disrespect his home, boundaries, and the mother of his kids: ‘I'm not about to let two grown adults bring chaos in my home’

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Lana DeGaetano • "Show me to me please."
May 22, 2025 6:00 PM EDT

Finally having a space to call your own feels like you've just won the lottery. Nobody is around to tell you how to live, what furniture to get, or use your stuff without asking—it's literally perfect. Add your perfect child to the mix, and parenting doesn't seem so stressful anymore. Though things might feel a bit lonely sometimes, it beats the alternative: Having family members around who will break your boundaries, treat your home with disrespect, and go so far as to make the mother of your child feel like a failure as a parent. That's what's going on in this next story.

The man who posted this story explains that his brother and his girlfriend were evicted and asked to stay with him while they look for a new place to live. Graciously, he decided to let them. This will prove to be a major mistake, as they break every house rule he set for them and then some… Scroll to read the full story below.

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  • This story brings “My house, my rules" to the next level. Family does stuff for family—that's a fact. However, if you start bringing drama into a household where a six-year-old lives, Papa Bear will make sure to nip that right in the bud.

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  • "AITA for kicking my brother and his girlfriend out after they disrespected my house rules and constantly caused drama with my son’s mother ?"

    Alright y'all, need some outside perspective because my family's making me feel like the bad guy. I (30M) moved into a new place a few months back. It's nothing
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  • fancy, but it's a good, stable spot for me and my 6-year-old son. Around that time, my younger brother Tyrell (24M) and his girlfriend Amber (22F) got
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  • evicted and asked if they could crash with me for a while. I didn't really want to, but they had nowhere else, and I figured it'd just be temporary.
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  • At first, it was fine. But after about a month, they started getting way too comfortable. Ignoring house rules I set - like
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  • no random people over when I'm not home, no smoking in the house, and being respectful when my son is there.
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  • Instead? They had people in and out while I was at work, left the place trashed, blasted music while my son was sleeping, and I caught Amber smoking in the bathroom twice.
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  • The biggest issue, though, was how they disrespected my son's - mother. Now — me and my baby moms aren't together, but we're cool. She picks up our son on
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  • weekends and sometimes drops him off at the house. Well, Amber took it upon herself to start making little slick comments
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  • whenever my son's mom came by. Petty, unnecessary stuff like, "oh, you actually showed up this time" or "didn't know you still cared".
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  • My son's mom kept it classy, but she told me it made her uncomfortable, and I agreed it was out of pocket.
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  • I confronted them about everything and Tyrell tried to downplay it like "she was just joking" and told me to stop being sensitive. That was the last straw for me.
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  • | gave them 30 days to find somewhere else. Of course, now I'm the bad guy. My mom's blowing up my phone saying "family sticks together" and
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  • "they just need guidance." Amber's been posting subliminals on Facebook about "fake people who pretend to help you then turn their back."
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  • But I don't care. My house, my rules. I'm raising a son and I'm not about to let two grown adults bring chaos into my home.
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  • So Reddit... AITA for kicking them out after they disrespected my house, my rules, and my son's mother?
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  • wesmorgan1 Your brother & his girlfriend are showing no respect for you, your son, your home, or your son's mother. The "only joking" garbage is ALWAYS ridiculous.
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  • Tell anyone giving you a hard time that they're welcome to take the two of them into their home. You are absolutely NTA - and 30 days' notice was generous.
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  • November-8485 NTA. The family is likely overreacting because they'll have to step up next and it's easier for them if they stay there. Any of these offenses would be a good reason to kick them out, or simply the fact you didn't want them living with you in the first place.
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  • You stepped to help them and they disrespected every aspect of the help. Consequences, actions, etc.
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  • Pristine-Local-8176 NTA. I'd send them to your mom's house since she wants to get involved. Tell them to go immediately and go to her. One month to find another place is generous after their behavior. They're not teenagers, these are grown people. They can figure it out, but never will if you enable them.
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